Role play.

Role play is an awesome way of building attraction with a woman you have just met or have known for a while. The concept of role play is basically pretending that you and the girl are either married or dating. Obviously this little act is completely half hearted and shouldn’t be taken seriously.

Role play is extremely fun and can easily be initiated early in the interaction. Basically you will each assume the role of husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend that are deeply in love, can’t stand each other, getting divorced or all of them.

Let’s say you’ve met this girl and you’ve been talking for about 5 minutes. It’s clear she is interested however she has not shown any solid IOIs.  By initiating role play, it will establish a strong connection between you.

Psychology behind role play

By establishing yourself as a make believe couple, 2 things happen in her mind.

One- You come across as humorous, fun and cocky which she will find highly attractive

Two- Even though she knows it’s just fun and games, she will still picture herself being in relationship with you. Her subconscious mind associates her being with you with good and happy emotions.

Cocky funny is essential

When doing role play you have to be able to pull off a cocky funny attitude. Role play is ALWAYS playful and NEVER serious. The minute it loses its playfulness it becomes useless and you become creepy

Sexual escalation

The great thing about role play is that you can really push it to the max without fear of being seen as to sexual. Saying things like “The only reason I divorced you was because you were terrible in bed. I don’t want to be in a relationship where I always have to fake it.” Not only is this cocky and funny but it also acts as a tease.

Kino in role play

Role is great for kino escalation. You can find lots of excuses to build kino without making her feel uncomfortable. Let’s say you’re in a set. You could say something like, “She’s a terrible girlfriend. She doesn’t even hold my hand when we go out just like she is now.” Then stick out your hand as if expecting her to hold it. Depending on her level of attraction towards you she will most likely hold your hand. When she does say, “That’s better.” If she doesn’t hold your hand say, “See what I mean?? A terrible girlfriend.”

Proposal props

I love proposal props because it acts as a little token that she can keep that reminds of good memories with you. After you have ‘divorced’ her and now ‘settled your difference’ you can now get remarried. Use anything as a proposal prop (a plastic ring, a piece of your jewellery, a bottle cap, a bottle, an elastic, a packet of sugar, anything. Tell her, “You know what, you aren’t so bad after all. I’m re marrying you. I’m broke at the moment so this is your temporary wedding ring.” and give her the proposal prop. After that she might keep it, leave it somewhere, throw it at you, it doesn’t matter what she does, so long as it gets a smile out of her.

Always be dominant

During role make sure that you always assume the dominant role. Make sure that you divorce her and she doesn’t divorce you. Always accuse her for being a bad girlfriend and bad in bed. Also never ask her to marry you, tell her that you are going to marry her. “I’ve decided, we getting married.” Assume the role of control.

How to initiate role-play

There are two ways to start role play. One is when you are “getting together” and the other is when you act as if you are already together and are now “breaking up”

Getting together- When you two agree on something or find a commonalty you can say “Oh my word! You love mayonnaise too? So do I! That’s it we dating. You’re my new girlfriend ok?”

“Haha. Ok!”

“But you have to promise to be a good girlfriend. And you’re only allowed to kiss another person if it’s a girl and I’m involved.” 

Another way to initiate getting together is by telling them how you are tired of being a player and you are ready to settle down “Yea I’m tired of being a player. I’m ready to settle down now. You’re my new girlfriend ok?”

Breaking up- This is when you pretend that you are already together. When she does something stupid or disagrees with you on something you can say “You know what? You’re a terrible girlfriend. I’m breaking up with you.”

“Haha. Just because I don’t like mayonnaise??”

“Yes. I need a girl who can share my passion for mayonnaise and you don’t seem to be that girl. Also, you’re terrible in bed” the common response to this is shocked faces and big smiles from girls. You also might get a playful smack which is an IOI

When to start role play

Only start role play after you hit the hook point and gotten some IOIs. Once you have a good level of interest from her and you can feel the attraction is starting to generate, hit her with role play. If you start role play too soon you might come across as too flirty too soon. Hitting role play at the right moment is not necessarily essential, but it does work more effectively at the correct time.

Put her on the emotional roller-coaster.

During role play you can put her through a series of situations. Get divorced, have kids, have affairs, fight for marital assets, fight over who keeps the Merc, get back together, get re married, get divorced again. By putting her on this emotional roller coaster she will relay begin to invest a lot of emotional connection into you and this will only serve to build up attraction. 

 Routines

With role play you really have to be able to think on your feet if you want to get the maximum result out of it. However not all people are that creative and prefer to use routines and gambits here are some clever lines you can use for different situations.

“I’ve already told you I want 50% of the assets. You can keep the kids but I’m keeping Walter (the gold fish)”

“One of the reasons I divorced you was because our sex life was so bad. I just can’t be in a relationship where I always have to fake my orgasms.”

“Fine. We can get back together but only if you get rid of that blow up doll of Jonny Depp that you keep under the bed. That thing freaks me out.”

“Just admit it, you’re a crazy nymphomaniac who only married me for my money and the sex.”